OK...fine...so I emailed her

Satisfied?

Man, you guys are tough on me...I know...it's the grown up thing to do. And I went and got all vulnerable and crap and told her I was just being silly and hurt by her comments and that I can relate to being feminine and trying to be taken seriously at the same time. I even made a comment about how our bi-lines are similar. Egad, we may even have something in common.

Okay..okay...now can I move on? (blech...I really hate being the bigger person...I'm much better at being the baby)